A man asked me to come over for dinner, but when I arrived, there was no meal — just a sink overflowing with dirty dishes and groceries spread across the counter. Calmly, he said, “I want to see what kind of housewife you’d be — and whether you can cook.”

“David,” I said evenly, “I came for a date. Not a job interview.”

He looked genuinely confused. “There’s an apron over there. I need borscht, cutlets, and clean dishes. I want to see care. If you can’t handle this, what happens when I’m sick?”

It was manipulation, plain and simple.

“You don’t need a wife,” I told him calmly. “You need a housekeeper, a cook, and a nurse rolled into one.”

His expression hardened.

“You women just want restaurants,” he snapped.

“I didn’t apply for employment,” I replied. “And I’m not here to prove myself. I’ve already done forty years of that.”

I picked up the chocolates I had brought.

“Where are you going?” he asked.

“There’s no dinner here,” I said. “Just demands.”

“Fine,” he shouted. “You’ll end up alone!”

That was supposed to hurt.

But it didn’t.

He wasn’t testing my cooking skills — he was testing my boundaries. If I had washed those dishes on a first date, it would’ve set the tone for everything that followed.

So I walked out calmly.

Because sometimes the most powerful thing a woman can do… is leave.

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