After ten years of marriage, I'd like everything to be divided equally... even now, it's still important. Ten years is no small thing.

 

As if raising our children didn't matter.
Managing the household finances didn't matter.
Caring for our sick mother didn't matter.
Being by her side at every company event didn't matter.
“I quit my job because you asked me to,” I reminded him.
“I said it would be better for the family,” he corrected calmly. “Don’t overdramatize.”
Don't dramatize.
Something inside me shifted.
It didn't shatter, it moved.
Because in that moment I understood what I had refused to admit for years.
It wasn't a spontaneous gesture.
It was a strategy.
He had changed lately.
He comes home later.
He smiles into the phone.
He dresses more elegantly.
I didn't say anything.
I watched.
One evening, he left his laptop open on his desk. I wasn't looking for anything... but the bright screen caught my attention.
A spreadsheet was open.
My name was listed in the first column.
“The expenses will be covered by her.”
Rent estimate.
Utilities.
Food.
Insurance.
An impossible total for someone who has been out of the workforce for ten years.
Below, a note:
“If he can't pay, he leaves.”
Leaves.
I stared at it for a long time.
Then I noticed another card.
“New proposal.”
I clicked.
Another woman's name appeared at the top.

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