At My Husband’s Funeral, I Opened His Casket to Place a Flower and Found a Crumpled Note Tucked Under His Hands

I was 55 years old, newly widowed after 36 years of marriage, when something I found at my husband’s funeral made me question whether I’d ever really known the man I loved.

His name was Greg—Raymond Gregory on paperwork, but just Greg to me.

We were married for 36 years. No drama. No fairytale. Just a quiet life built on grocery lists, car maintenance, and his habit of choosing the outer seat in restaurants “in case some idiot drove through the window.”

Then, on a rainy Tuesday, a truck didn’t stop in time.

One call. One hospital visit. One doctor saying, “I’m so sorry.” My life split cleanly into Before and After.

At the viewing, I felt hollow. I had cried until my skin hurt. My sister had to zip my dress because my hands wouldn’t stop shaking.

Greg looked peaceful, dressed in the navy suit I bought for our last anniversary. His hair was neatly combed. His

hands folded like he was resting.

I brought a single red rose. When I leaned in to place it between his hands, I noticed something else—a small white note tucked beneath his fingers.

Someone had placed it there without telling me.

I slipped the note into my purse and went to the restroom. When I read it, my breath caught.

“Even though we could never be together the way we deserved, my kids and I will love you forever.”

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