Our Surrogate Gave Birth to Our Baby – The First Time My Husband Bathed Her, He Shouted, ‘We Can’t Keep This Child’

Her eyes filled with tears. “They said she could develop an infection that might spread to her spine. They said you weren’t in the waiting room anymore, that they tried calling you.”

“We got nothing,” Daniel snapped.

I looked at the doctor. “How many times did you call us? Or try to find us?”

He didn’t answer quickly enough.

“How many?” I repeated.

“We called once,” he admitted. “A nurse looked for you, but couldn’t find you. Given the urgency, we proceeded with the available consenting adult.”

“That’s it?” My voice came out sharper than I intended.

The doctor’s expression tightened. “The child needed treatment.”

I looked down at Sophia. Her tiny face rested peacefully against my chest. She had already gone through something painful before I even learned the sound of her cry.

And then the anger came.

I looked at the doctor first. “Did it save my baby from serious harm?”

He nodded. “Yes.”

I took a breath. “Then I am grateful you treated her.”

Kendra let out a shaky breath, like she thought I was letting it go.

I turned to her.

“And I believe you were trying to help…”

She started crying.

But I didn’t stop.

“… But you still made a decision that should have been ours.”

Kendra’s face crumpled. “I know.”

“No, I don’t think you do.” I looked at the doctor again. “At what point did you decide I didn’t count as her mother?”

His mouth opened, then closed.

I turned to Kendra. “At what point did you?”

She dropped her gaze.

“Not one of you gets to decide when I count.”

“We needed to act fast—” the doctor began.

“We were here, in the hospital. You tried to call us once before putting that decision on her.” I nodded toward Kendra as I adjusted Sophia in my arms. “I want the full medical records. Every note. Every consent form. I want the names of everyone involved in that decision.”

The doctor nodded slowly. “You’re entitled to the records.”

“And I want a formal review.”

That earned another pause.

Daniel stepped beside me, close enough that our arms touched. “And a copy of the policy you think justified this.”

Kendra wiped her face. “I truly thought I was doing the right thing.”

I believed her.

“You were scared,” I said. “I understand why you did what you did. What I want to know is why the system failed me.” I turned and looked directly at the doctor.

He didn’t answer.

On the drive home, Daniel said quietly, “I should have checked her more carefully when we got home.”

I turned to him. “Don’t do that.”

“I’m serious.”

“So am I.” My voice softened. “This isn’t on you.”

 

 

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